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Communicantes: May 2001
 

EDUCATION

The training of the children to virtue should commence well before the age of five

This is a conference given by the Dominican teaching Sisters during a Parent’s Meeting at Saint Dominic School, in Post Falls, Idaho, U.S.A., in December 2000

Saint Dominic School

Saint Dominic School in Post Falls. We see the Church, and the school main building.

In the education of children, both the family and the school must make sure that they base their education on the laws of nature and grace, and on the principles of the Church, not on personal opinion, personal experience, personal preferences, which can but lead to narrow-mindedness, subjectivism, independence with respect to these laws of nature and grace, and actually into errors of judgement fraught with drastic consequences upon the future of our children. It is very necessary that in all the decisions they make in this field of education, both the family and the school strive to conform to the right principles as they are handed over to us by the Church, by two millenniums of the life of the Church, by the teachings of many a Pope, in short, by the wisdom and authority of Holy Mother Church who is in charge of educating, directing and guiding us, and to whom therefore we owe a profound obedience. So many mistakes in education come from human pride, under its form of the spirit of independence. But then the children are misled; that is, they are led unto wrong tracks, wrong efforts, wrong convictions, narrow-minded Catholicism, individualistic understanding of Christian life, wrong scale of values. Now let us not think that we are immune from these deviations, or at least from the danger to give in to such deviations. Nowadays all of us are so immersed in a very liberal world, whose characteristic is this spirit of independence with respect to any law, any authority, that we easily, perhaps unconsciously, nevertheless truly, tend to judge all things according to what we think, without being concerned enough about whether our thinking is right or wrong. We easily neglect to refer back to objective truths, objective principles, as well as to the unquestionable authority of the teachings of the Church. And it is serious. For education is not arbitrary. Education canNOT be arbitrary. None of us created human nature! Therefore, the First act of intelligence on our part must be an act of humility: to acknowledge God as being our Creator and our Redeemer; hence will naturally arise a spirit of submission to what He has done, to His intent in creating man, and to His Church; which spirit requires, along with true humility, a desire to know, an inquisitiveness about the laws God has inscribed in nature and grace. Such a frame of mind is absolutely prerequisite of anyone for his own intellectual and spiritual progress, in truth, and all the more of every one in charge of educating children; that is, parents at home and teachers at school.

Now why do I bring up this point in the introduction for tonight's conference? It is for a twofold purpose: first, to state, once again, that all the principles which guide our task at school are based upon our entire submission to these laws of nature and grace and to the teachings of the Church. The second purpose is to beseech you, for the love of Our Lord, and for the love of your children, to be ready to revise some of your opinions, or even convictions, if by listening to the points we are going to bring up tonight, you discover some wrong, some deviation in your thinking or acting. Each and every one of us must always have the humility to think to himself: maybe I do not think perfectly right, maybe I do not know well, or do not always do what is best: I had better check. And then we can make progress. And we all have to keep making progress. And we do have teachers, we do have masters, we do have objective criteria defined by centuries of Christianity. We are not helpless. It is only when we place our trust in our own so-called wisdom, without being concerned with its perfect conformity to the wisdom of the Church, that we become helpless, because we shut ourselves up in our own petty subjectivism which is a constant source of blindness, of error in our appreciation of things, of life, of good and evil, This is why it is so necessary that our children learn, in order to come to know the truth, and to become able to live good lives. This is why their studies are inseparable from their spiritual growth.

Tonight's conference will attempt to provide you with some principles and practical means by which you will be able to help your children better understand the necessity of learning, of becoming cultured, of taking great strides on the right path, of acquiring strong virtues, in order to mature properly, and to become saintly women, truly capable of fulfilling their providential mission as women, either in the home or in a convent, according to their vocation.


                                                                                   

Here is the outline we will follow.

I.          Education is a training to virtue. The general principles about it.

            A ‑ The necessity to develop good habits.

            B ‑ The major role of reason.

            C ‑ How use does breed a habit.

            D ‑ The training of the little ones to virtue.

            E ‑ The law of progress is interior and personal to every child, every individual.

II.        How the family and the school should combine their ef forts' to achieve this training to virtue. Very practical part, which will bring up many practical points.

            A ‑ School is part of the family life

            B ‑A few major points concerning the training of theintellect.

                        1 ‑ How do we come to know

                        2 ‑ Training of the imagination

                        3 ‑ Training of the memory

                        4 ‑ Training of the intellect

                        5 ‑ Necessity to develop intellectual virtues

III.       A few words about the major role played by three virtues in the education of children; that is, prudence, temperance and fortitude.


A. Necessity to Develop good habits.

1 – “Man is born with a splendid array of powers. [3] No other creature on earth is so highly gifted as he. No other living thing even begins to approach him in the range of his performances. Yet, he is quite helpless at birth; so helpless, in fact, that if someone were not present to watch over, nourish, and protect him, he could hardly survive. We should never suspect him of having reason and will, if we had to go by the kind of outward behavior he exhibits. He is clumsy and awkward, ignorant and uncultured. He has no knowledge to speak of,  and no consciousness of right and wrong. As far as appearances go, he is merely an animal and a very immature one at that. His worth lies in his promising future rather than in his present accomplishments.”

2. – “What is it,  then,  that turns the weak and puny child into a well- bred and well-rounded man? What force or energy gives his powers that grace and ease, that assurance and command which we so much admire in the full-grown person?

The secret of such perfection, of course, is habit.

What is a habit? It is a permanent quality which enables us to act in a way that is not only prompt and skillful, but full of zest and pleasure as well.”

School Chapel Exterior

The new school chapel, of roman provencal style.

 

Our being is endowed with powers like intellect, will . . . which we are meant to develop, thanks to good habits. “A power is a property, and therefore a part of our natural endowment. It belongs to us as a birthright. A habit is something that we build up by our own efforts.” For example, our intellect is one of the "powers" of the soul. As such, it is in potentiality to acquiring knowledge. But it is the study, the habits of learning which little by little have it grow in science, understanding, wisdom... This power of our intellect requires the acquisition of habits of  knowledge in order to achieve the purpose for its existence. Otherwise, it lies fallow. This explains why one may meet children with a bright intelligence as a given, but who lose a good part of it by their inertia; it becomes atrophied. Whereas others, who are not as bright, at first, do develop their average intelligence into a brighter one thanks to their steady efforts. And the same thing with any other power of the soul. For if “powers are the same in all men, habits differ from one person to another. All of us have the same kind of minds, but not all of us have the same kind of knowledge. In the same way, all of us have the same kind of wills, but not all of us have the same kind of virtues. Habit is the perfection of a power.” Someone who does not acquire habits of learning does not develop his intelligence; he remains a dwarf intellectually whereas he is physically an adult. And this is in itself a monstrosity... about which few of the modern people really care, but from which most of them do suffer. We will get back to this topic a bit later. “And habit is a source of action. The seeds of habit are sown in our powers. There they take root and entrench themselves so deeply that they seem to fuse with our very nature.” For example, the knowledge we have assimilated becomes part of our very nature; we use it, we keep building upon it, and this is what allows us to take steps forward, learn more, understand things more deeply, etc... This is why “philosophers go so far as to describe our habits as ‘second nature’. The point is well taken, not only because habits are close to the secret recesses of our being, but also because they have so much to do with the way our personalities and characters are shaped.” [4]

This is why the work of education essentially consists in developing good habits in the children, in other words, in training them to virtue.

3. But before we go further into practical details of this training, we need to bring up two other major points which we need to keep in mind when we undertake this training to virtue:

a) Besides the helplessness of children at birth and for a few years, due to their state of being babies, there is the fact that all of them come into this world being afflicted by the wounds of original sin. As a result of original justice (the original state of grace), the reason had perfect hold over the lower parts of the soul, while reason itself was perfected by God and subject to Him. Now this same original justice was forfeited through the sin of our first parents, so that all the powers of the soul are left, as it were, destitute of their proper order, whereby they are naturally directed to virtue; which destitution is called a wounding of nature. In consequence of this deprivation of the original justice, man's normal drive and desire for God are changed into a drive and desire for temporary and changeable good. Original sin in all of us is an ill disposition of fallen human nature. It is a languor of nature. As we know, there are four wounds inflicted on the whole of human nature as a result of our first parents' sin:

- Insofar as the reason is deprived of its order to the true, there is the wound of ignorance.

- Insofar as the will is deprived of its order to the good, there is the wound of malice.

- Insofar as the sensitive appetite is deprived of its order to the arduous, there is the wound of weakness.

- Insofar as the sensitive appetite is deprived of its order to the delectable moderated by reason, there is the wound of concupiscence.

This fallen state is to be taken into consideration in the training of children, lest we make the most silly and serious mistakes. This fallen state makes it quite clear that training to virtue will imply correction of faults, straightening out of deviations, putting back to order our original disorder.

b) The other point one must keep in mind is that there is no natural destiny for man. Man has only a supernatural destiny. His very end is not here below. He was created in order one day to share in the eternal beatitude of God Himself. Despite the fall, man’s destiny remains the same, but is attainable only through Christ and His Church.

The consequences of those principles are major:

i) We have an unbalanced nature, due to original sin. So let us not worship our children. They are wounded, therefore in dire need of healing.

ii) We can recover a marvelous balance, but only in Christ, by grace.

iii) “We do not have here below a permanent abode. Our city is in heaven.”

 

Hence the necessity to bring the natural order under the sway of the supernatural order.

Hence this major principle that it is only through grace that nature can find its healing.

Henceforth grace is meant to bring about practical results in the mind, in the will, in the heart, in the whole life, in all the details of the life of our children (as well as ours, of course).

Please make sure you keep in mind all these facets of the question when we pursue our study. Let it be understood that when we speak of reason, we will speak of right reason, subject to God... even if I do not explicitly mention it each time (which is impossible!). Let us keep in mind that when we speak of the natural order, we speak of it as willed by God, and as grace is meant to rebuild it. Thus equipped we can go back to our subject which is to show how education is a training to virtue and how it is supposed to take place.

B. The major role of reason.

“Not all of man's powers are proper to himself. Those that carry on his vegetative acts are common to himself and to the plants; for example growth. Those that are concerned with his sensitive functions are common to himself and the animals. Only his reason and will are strictly human powers, but these are enough to account for the place of high rank and distinction that he holds among earthly creatures. The key power, of course, is reason. In greater or lesser degree, reason can influence most of the other powers. It reaches out into all spheres of activity” (or at least it should!). “If we condition our reflexes, it is reason which is behind the conditioning.” (For example, the pianist, the violinist, the craftsman...) “If we train our memories, it is reason that lays down the rules.” (For example, you must first understand what you try to memorize. You can remember what a subject is, only if you first understand what it is.) “If we learn to curb our passions and temper our instincts, it is reason that guides our conduct. If we develop a strong will and manage to keep ourselves on the path of virtue, it is reason that lights the way. Eventually, reason is the basis of habit.” [5]

Now,  a good habit is called a “virtue”. Why? Virtue, comes from the Latin ‘vir’, which means ‘man’. Virtue, then, is something virile, strong, manly, something which is proper to man alone. We do not speak of the virtues of an animal, because an animal is not able to form habits of this sort. Since they belong to man as man, they must flow from these powers that man alone, of all earthly creatures, has in his nature. Now these powers are intellect and will. Hence virtues are always connected in some way with man's thinking and willing. This is why to act virtuously is essentially to act according to right reason; which is proper to man. This is why we are ‘human’ (worthy of the name) only inasmuch as we act virtuously, that is according to right reason. “And the reason why our intellect and will must be trained to virtue is that, among our wide assortment of powers, only reason and will are disposed by nature to acting in several different ways. Our reason is able to picture things in an abstract way and is not held down to any particular truth. But this very condition makes it all the more necessary that we train it to think along certain lines, so that it can be made perfect in special branches of knowledge and formed to truth. In the same way, the will can be drawn to supreme goodness but is not held down to any particular good. But this condition, too, imposes on us the obligation of training it to act along certain lines so that it can become the possessor of special kinds of virtue. As St. Thomas says, any power that is disposed to act in different ways is in need of habit, so that it may be well disposed to act in one particular way. Now, as human beings, we have two kinds of excellence to achieve: the betterment of our minds; and the betterment of our morals. The first is the special business of the intellect. The second is the task of the will. We accomplish the first by cultivating the intellectual virtues, the second by fostering the moral virtues. Both the intellectual virtues and the moral virtues are necessary if we are to grow up and reach our full stature as human beings. And if any of our other powers are able to receive the impress of habit,  it is solely because they fall under the command of reason and will, whose freedom they can share in a limited sort of way. This is why the word ‘virtue’ can be even widened out to embrace even those habits that are grafted by reason and will on our animal appetites, as we shall see.” [6]

C. How use does breed a habit.

School Chapel Interior

The interior of the Chapel; beauty lifts souls up to God

“Now that we have found where habit properly belongs, let us look a little more closely at its origin and make up”.

1. “The first thing to be no-ted is that it usually comes into being through repeated action. It is like the cutting of a new pathway through a virgin forest. Only after the passing of many footsteps is it beaten down, made deeper, surer, smoother. So, too, with the power that is acquiring a habit. At first, there is hardly more than a scratching of the surface. But little by little the footprints of today are added to the traces of yesterday. Gradually a disposition to act in a certain way is brought  into being.  Because a power can profit by what has gone before, it begins to achieve a lasting story.” And this is why it is of major importance that parents and educators be consistent in their demands to their children. The repetition of the acts is the way by which virtue is acquired.

2. “For virtue is something permanent and abiding.  Outside of this permanence, there is no virtue. There may be a few isolated good acts, but there is no virtue. The performance of one good act does not make a habit. But there is comfort in the thought that when we strive to develop virtues, something settled and lasting has been brought into being. We can go to sleep at night with the assurance that it will still be with us in the morning”.

3. “And the third thing we observe about a habit is the way that it changes the productiveness of a power, giving it an aptitude to do things it could not do before.  This something new which has been added is a quality, or a tendency to behave in a certain way. By means of it, the power is able to act with ease, promptness,  and a skill that is as surprising as it is pleasurable. What a sheer delight to watch the craftsman as he handles his tools, or the painter as he wields his brush, or the actor as he plays his part on the stage! What a joy to listen to an accomplished singer or to a well-trained pianist! What a splendid inspiration to read the lives of the great scholars and the great saints and see how they excelled in habits of wisdom and holiness”.

4. “But these things are not only a pleasure to behold but also a joy to possess. For that is another mark of every good habit; it is a source of happiness to its possessor. We have all felt the thrill of a job well done.”[7] How important it is to realize this truth in education. What makes a child happy is not the cookies or the toys you offer him; it is the satisfaction of his task well done. Only the lazy, not virtuous students, who never acquire habits of study, remain grouchy and unhappy. As you see them become studious, and in a consistent way, you can read the happiness on their countenance. And do not worry, they will remain capable of appreciating vacation or recreation. But in a virtuous way!

 

D. The training of the little ones to virtue.

Since to be virtuous is to act according to right reason, and the little ones do not have the use of their reason until it develops little by little, should we wait, do nothing, demand nothing, until they are capable of understanding?

1. Some, in their ignorance of the laws of nature and grace think so, and therefore, do not direct their children, do not correct them under the false pretext that they cannot understand. This is a tremendous mistake, an error whose consequences are incalculable. For by refusing to inculcate good habits in their children they open the way to developing bad habits. The children will necessarily develop either one or the other. If they are never opposed in their whims, they develop the habit of ruling any authority, of being obeyed and served. It is easy to see the drastic consequences of it. Begin to train a child at five years old, after he has lived in the greatest ‘freedom’ for the first five years of his life. It is impossible. It has become a habit for him to be obeyed and served, it is a second nature in him. The day his parents do deem it necessary to begin his education, it is too late. Whatever demand they may have will appear unbearable to that child, who so far has been used to doing whatever he wants, to screaming as much a  he wants, to intervening in the conversations among adults without ever being put back in his place, to eating whenever he is hungry and without any restriction imposed on his gluttony, etc . . .

2. What is therefore the right answer to that question?It is that since children do not have yet the use of their reason, it is for the parents to use theirs in order to direct the steps of their little ones. The parents know why they will require this or that. Their children cannot understand the ‘why’, yet they do learn how to act virtuously, according to right reason; for the time being, it is the right reason of their parents until theirs becomes little by little capable of grasping some concepts. But it is very important that parents have and oblige their children to act virtuously. And then, later, when the children begin to reflect upon what they are doing, what they have learnt  in their childhood, they can understand that  it was  right, virtuous. They will have begun to build good habits on their powers, thanks to which habits they can already perform ‘naturally’ many a good act and enjoy a certain balance. When parents neglect this training, they hand their children over to a deadly anarchy, a deadly chaos; and they make the growth of their children in virtue much, much more difficult, if not impossible. The enemies of Christ know it; “a man is made at five years old,” say the communists; meaning that the habits which he has acquired during his very first years have immeasurable and the deepest consequences upon his whole life.

3. So let us become profoundly aware of the tremendous importance of the training of our little ones to virtue. Let us teach them to obey, to respect adults, to think of others, to eat virtuously, to perform their small duties, etc... Let us inculcate in them those virtues which will flourish in them all the more easily as they will have been trained in them from the earliest childhood. We must get them to do the right things, and therefore we must correct them when they do wrong. Besides, it teaches them the realism of grace; that is, how grace is meant to permeate their very life, in having them act in a saintly way. They do not know yet, but they are learning one of the major lessons they have to learn: “It is not those who say: ‘Lord, Lord’, who will be saved, but those who do the will of the Father.” It is a matter of doing the right things, not just of dreaming of being a saint. Education is an act, not a potentiality. It must lead the children to act properly. Outside of this there is only illusion, but we, the parents and teachers, will bear the responsibility for it.

4. It is mere common sense to remember that a little child is twice helpless: first by nature, as he cannot enjoy the use of his reason for quite a period of time; secondly as his nature, on account of original sin, is inclined to evil, and therefore, if left to its impulses, it will not spontaneously always choose the good. Therefore it is evident that the parents, long before the child goes to school, must train him to virtue from the earliest childhood.

5. And this education includes the training of the lower powers as well. “True, we share our life with the plants and our senses with the animals; but our lower powers are all more or less subject to the influence of reason. What more natural, then, than that reason should put the impress of habit on them! Reason can condition our simple reflexes. This makes for better manners and greater ease of social intercourse, especially when it has to do with the alimentary reflexes. Thus, if we continued, as grownups, to eat, gulp, etc., as we did when babies, the strain would be very hard on other people, and we should likely get very few invitations to dine out. So we learn to be polite by training these natural movements”. [8] It is good for a pig to eat as a pig. It is bad for a human being to eat as a pig. It goes against his dignity. Even the functions we share with animals must bear the mark of reason, on account of the nobility of our rational soul which is the principle of life of our entire being, at all its levels. Everything we do, at the lowest level as at the highest must be human, that is virtuous, according to right reason. We cannot eat like animals.

“The power of local movement, too, can be molded by reason. Good habit of speech, for example, manual skills, proper carriage of the body, are among the most common fruits of intelligence. Finally, the animal appetites are singled out in a special way by reason and made to fall in line with the demands of a good life”. [9]

Four Dominican Sisters

Four Dominican Sisters, with Father James Doran

E. A last principle about the "training to virtue" in general;

           The law of progress is interior and personal to every child, every individual.

1. This is true of the acquisition of any virtue,  therefore primarily of the acquisition of knowledge, at the intellectual level, since the foundation of virtues is ‘right reason’, which can be formed only through acquisition of knowledge. As R. F. White (0.P.) wrote; “The acquisition of real knowledge can only be an immanent growth, a gradual and interior process. No one can do my learning for me. I do not know that x is y when all I do is remember that my father or my teacher says so. I know it only when I see that it follows from what I already know, when I logically draw this conclusion from what I already know. This is why no human teacher can do the job for me.” No human teacher can do the job for your children. “Knowledge, wisdom, truth, cannot be imposed upon the mind from without; they can only grow up from within. Only by the activity of his own mind can the child convert the raw material of sense-experience into ideas. Only by the activity and receptivity of his own mind, can ideas be possessed, assimilated, developed, coordinated, affirmed, denied,... The role of the teachers therefore, as well as the role of the parents, is to cooperate with the light of reason implanted in their children by God. They are a disposing, assisting, auxiliary cause of the knowledge in their children's minds, as the physicians are of our health. They can lead the children to the waters of wisdom, but they can neither provide them nor make them drink”; and the same rule applies to the cultivation of any virtue.

2. This means that without the active, willing and consistent cooperation of the child in his own education, he will learn nothing, though he may have the greatest parents and teachers around him. Moreover this personal, and active, and willing, cooperation is supposed to grow as the child grows, as his consciousness and intelligence develop. This is why our Constitutions state (a. 272):“The child will be asked to cooperate to her own education in an active and gradually ever more conscious way.”

3. But then you may ask: if learning is that  interior and personal process, how can parents and educators foster this learning in their children? How can they dispose, assist, help their children toward the acquisition of knowledge? The first and primary task of parents and educators is to awaken the mind, the life of the mind in their children; the first step on that road is to encourage,  develop and direct the natural inquisitiveness of their little ones. Our mind is made to know. Its natural tendency therefore will be to try to know. See how Often your little ones ask questions: What is this? and What is that? and Why this? and Why that? Do not fail to answer. This is very good, and you must encourage, develop, and of course direct, channel this inquisitiveness. “For, as Aristotle says:Wonder is the mother of wisdom.

We can never know anything if we do not ask questions. And we do not mean only questions of the teachers or of the books, but asking questions of ourselves, of reality, of life, of God. Where there is no surprise, no wonder, no inquisitiveness in the face of God and His creatures, there is no conceivable possibility of an immanent,  an interior growth of knowledge; the lessons of catechism, philosophy, history, whatever subject, can be no more than a dead, and deadening structure imposed on the mind from without, instead of being a vital inner response to our inner, personal need. If excessive curiosity is a vice,  the absence of curiosity,  of wonder,  of inquisitiveness is intellectual frigidity,  a positive repression of the mind's natural desire to know, which can result only in intellectual sterility”. [10] The role of the parents is major in this respect. For long before their children attend school, during about 5 years, parents are the only ones in charge of awakening the mind of their children, of directing its inquisitiveness, of answering its questions, and in depth, indeed according to their age, nevertheless in depth. For their questions are usually much deeper than we can think at first. And were they wrong, superficial, it is for the parents to direct their children towards more important questions. One can see therefore how this primary education requires the presence of the parents at their children's side, the time spent at their side, the determination to ‘teach’ their children, direct them, show them the path, encourage them to take new steps, assist their growth, correct their deviations, etc.; in one word how everything depends on the parents' activity toward their children who are completely under their care for the first 4, 5 or 6 years of their life, these years during which the major orientations of their life will be imprinted on them. They will be imprinted, whether we like it or not. Whatever a child has learned during the first years of his life has become his second nature to the point that parents who begin to teach and train them only when they are around 5 years old, under the false pretext that they cannot understand anything sooner, as we already explained, these parents make the painful discovery that their children are very rebellious against the ‘new’ directions given them. If children have not heard of God, of Jesus, of Mary, until they are 4 or 5 years old, then God, Jesus and Mary are strangers to them, intruders who disturb their life! If they have not been trained to act virtuously, they rebel vehemently against the beginning of such training at 5 years old,  training which is so opposed to the complete freedom and anarchy to which they have been handed over from their birth and for 5 or 6 years!

F. Conclusion.

In conclusion to this first part, I will simply refer you back to the principle which states that: “The family is first responsible for the education of the children”; that is, for imprinting the beginning of good habits, of virtues, of a well directed and ever increasing inquisitiveness in their children. Not only in time, is the family first responsible,  but above all in influence. For man is born from his parents, and therefore he is influenced by them in the most powerful way. It is natural. It is in his ‘bowels’ to speak as the Holy Scripture does: the ‘viscera’.  And not only does this primary responsibility of the parents continue when the child goes to school, but it increases with this new step. The child will benefit from the teaching given at school only inasmuch as his parents will this teaching, and support it, follow up on it, and ‘oblige’ the child to correspond to it, to the best of his abilities. We are going to consider and analyze in depth the practical aspects of this question. "

Part II


[3] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[4] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[5] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[6] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[7] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[8] R.F. Brennan O.P.

[9] Ibidem

[10] R.F. White O.P.

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