Educating
the Youth to Live the Mass
(slightly
edited by Fr. Boulet)
EDUCATION
IN CHRISTIAN LIVING:
3.REGULAR
CONFESSION.
(continued)
a) Instruction
in the right use o f Confession: Stress the fact that confession should
be essentially " personal, " i.e. there need be no
set scheme but that rather the sins should confessed in one's own
words with one's own description of the kind of sin. This method is
praiseworthy, for it avoids the danger that frequent confessions become
mere routine. Nevertheless, this method cannot be recommended to all
children indiscriminately and prudence and caution must be shown in
proposing it. There are some who can use it with real profit. But
there are many others who cannot. Often children lack the necessary
maturity to be able, to pass judgment on their interior life with
such liberty. These need some sort of outline for examining their
consciences according to which they can rightly indicate their sins.
Generally, therefore, it is best to advise the children to use some
set formula for the examination of conscience. But in all their confessions
they should customarily include one or two of their sins which appear
to them more serious, explaining in their own words, perhaps, some
aggravating circumstance. However in giving this advice, it must be
stressed that only the confession of mortal sins is necessary for
a valid confession, but that something may be freely added out of
a desire for sincere contrition and in a spirit of penance.
b) Frequent
Confession: For the immediate effect of the sacrament itself, children
and adolescents should go to confession once or twice a month or perhaps
weekly. For the full educational and formative effects of this sacrament
they should regularly confess, at least twice a month. However in
practice there may be great obstacles to this, especially shortage
of confessors or the fact that the confessors have not enough time.
Therefore it is often necessary to be satisfied with the minimum,
monthly confession. Monthly confession is not enough for many young
people today, beset as they are with so many dangers. Further
the educative influence of confession can be obtained only if confession
is really frequent - -i.e. at least once every two weeks.